Write Things: On writing to please your audience (part 2)
Oct 17, 2024Hello Writers,
Last week, we talked about the stress and doubt that comes from writing to please others. This week, I want to dive deeper into the creative consequences of people-pleasing and how it can hold you back from creating truly original, fulfilling work.
Idea: On People-Pleasing in Writing (Part 2)
When we’re focused on what others will think, we’re not just stifling our creativity—we’re preventing ourselves from creating anything truly original. Writing to appease an audience means you’re working within the boundaries of what you think will be accepted. You’ll never push the limits, break new ground, or write the kind of stories that challenge or expand readers' perspectives.
Think about it: When you’re constantly worried about how others will react, you’ll never allow yourself to write freely. You’ll spend so much energy second-guessing your ideas, trying to anticipate reactions, that the writing process becomes stressful instead of enjoyable. You can’t trust yourself because you’re not writing for yourself.
Most importantly, when you write authentically—when you trust your instincts and follow your own creative process—you’ll start to feel more comfortable in the work. You’ll develop a repeatable, sustainable practice because it’s coming from within. No more relying on external validation or feeling like you need to hit a moving target.
Authentic writing is sustainable writing. It brings peace and trust in your creative process because you’re no longer trying to predict or control other people’s reactions. And when you trust yourself, you can create again and again.
Inspiration: "The Hidden Path"
Set a timer for four minutes and write on the prompt above. It could be personal or fictional—follow whichever direction your creativity takes you.
As always, I’d love to hear what you wrote! Reply to this email or send it to [email protected]. I personally reply to each one received before next Thursday.
Invitation: To Push Boundaries
This week, I invite you to challenge yourself to push the limits in your writing. Is there an idea you’ve been holding back on because you’re unsure how people will react? Maybe a character that’s not quite likeable enough or a scene that feels risky?
Take the leap! Write something bold, something new, something that breaks the mold. Even if it feels uncomfortable, give yourself the freedom to explore and see where your creativity takes you.
Remember, the goal is not to impress—it’s to express.
See you next week,
Trevor Martens
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